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Fear Based Decisions
There two kinds of decisions. Fear based and faith based. A fear based decision is made when you have been or are focusing on what you don’t want and you decide to resist it.
A fear based decision is made in preparation for a probable event that you do not want to happen. You begin by considering the unwanted probability and then you start by putting up resistance to it.
The problem with resisting a negative or unwanted probability is that in the resistance of it, it becomes the thing you think about and the more you focus on it the more probable it becomes. This is how you "invite disaster."
According to the law of attraction, you get what you think about whether you want it or not. Ask and it is given. When you think about a thing, you are asking. When you worry about a thing, you are asking. When you constantly focus on a thing, you are commanding the universe to bring it to you. It has been created and it is on the way towards you. Wanted or unwanted, it is on its way towards you.
Some will argue that bad things do happen and they did not ask for them. An insurance salesman will certainly tell you this. He will give you examples as he paints vivid pictures of a large number of undesirable probabilities that could be in your future. Other people will do the same. Your imagination will do the same given all these ideas you are considering. If you continue to dwell upon these negative unwanted probabilities and begin to believe in them and start resisting them, worrying about them and taking action against them, then you are commanding them to come into your experience.
If you would rather not believe that you are the one responsible for everything that comes into your experience, you may join the ranks of many (and most) others who blame fate and circumstance for what they themselves have manifested. They believe they have no control over their lives whatsoever, and they continue to create their experience through thinking about, worrying about and putting up resistance to the things they don't want.
The answer to this dilemma is to direct your thinking and your energy towards what you do want and don't worry or think about other probabilities.
All probabilities have the potential to manifest, and your attention to them is what brings them into your experience. When you find yourself thinking about what you don't want, consciously turn your attention to what you do want. Do this with as much feeling as you can. Be excited about what you want and about what you are creating.
Emotions and feeling, together with focused attention will bring what you think about to you and will manifest in your experience. This is why fear is your worst enemy. Fear is an emotion that will give power to your thoughts and with focused attention, you will begin to attract that thing or situation which you fear.
When you realize you can create what you want by directing your thoughts, there is nothing to fear. The creative intelligence of the universe is at your command and its only function is to manifest the things you think about. It does not comprehend the negative idea of the statement: "I don't want that!" It only sees the picture of the thing or event you are focusing on. It does not understand that you do not want it. If you do not want it they why are you thinking about it? To think about it is to ask for it. To constantly focus on it is to command it.
Yes, you do have control over what you think about and how you think about it. Yes, you can change your attitude, attention, opinions, thoughts and beliefs. Yes you can deliberately place your attention on what you want instead of what you don’t want. Yes, you can create what you want and receive it into your experience.
If you are not creating what you want, then your are creating or perpetrating the existence of what you don't want.
We are lucky that in this reality our thoughts are not manifested immediately. We have time to change our minds and rearrange our our future. We have the power to change our life, our experience, our health, and our fortune. It may require patience while you wait for your order to arrive, because the buffer of time is there to protect us against our negative thought forms, but you can change the direction of your future in an instant.